Thursday, November 19, 2009

Me






My father was a supervisor  in a company. We had a very nice life I can say. Mandug Davao in Mindanao I was born.  If you will go to Mindanao, particular in Davao and ask where's mandug?  That place was a very critical area.  A lot of people were scared in that place. In 1980s  I've seen it with my own eyes,  the helicopters above our house and military soldiers were everywhere firing the rebels. My mother was so brave that we  never moved out from that Village. I was raised to be brave in life.  My grandfather was a Musician. He was a leader of Rondalla Club  and my grandmother was a midwife. My father  was a Valedictorian got high medals and honors in his time and had a wonderful job. Since my father got high position in a company, In that village where we lived, everybody knows us. I can still remember the time I was baptized I was five years old.  I have 36 sponsors and we had feast in our house. 4 pigs were killed and a lot of  food. The problem began when I was seven years old. My father and mother were separated . My sister was almost a teacher and my brother an engineer. All of us finished high school fortunately. Leah my sister went to the ministry and did theology course.  She's 40 years old now and has four kids. Al my brother wants  to work  than to be an engineer. He worked at my aunt's printing press, bakery and restaurant.   He is 38 years old now and has three kids.

 My mother did a lot of work for us to finish our studies. She was a choir member , Beautician, Seller, Worker in any kind of work. She has to earn  money for us to survive for the day.  That time I told myself that all men are like my father, I don't want to have any relation.  If only he didn't  left us, we had an individual careers now. My mother was always on my side.  She taught me how to be tough in life. I didn't have  luxurious things while studying. I have to walk to go to school 1 kilometer everyday.  I didn't have fancy things what the girl wants. The money was enough for food and some other things that most needed. As what I've said, we're living in a scary and critical area.  I was immune about fighting and surviving. When I knew that my mother entered as a Chef  Cook in the Kingdom of Jesus Christ I was alone after I graduated high school.  She waited until that moment. She was assigned before in Manila, but now in Dubai. I was in Davao that time.

 I followed my sister and did also Theology Course and became a Crusader  Musician when I was 17 yrs. old. It was fun! We went to many places included abroad. We did a lot of Concerts  I was a traveller. I went out when I was 27 years old and decided to start a new life. I decided to do business with a friend  buy and sell. I chose shoes and bags from Korea a slightly used things. Okay Okay in Visaya. 'Twas a big hit! Filipinos loved it because it was durable, branded and most of all very low price. We  have four  helpers in our  two places in Cagayan De Oro Divisoria  Nightcafe had an apartment, my dog lucky, complete appliances and a Multicab. After five years, I felt bored in my life. One day I thought about  having  kids and a good husband.

One time, I opened my PC and started to be curious in Dating Sites. I just registered on Meetic.com. I put my profile there. I was very serious of  searching someone that was not Filipino. It was almost five months had talked  a lot of men in the site.  1,400 men visited my page, but still I could not fInd someone that even through writing we can connect each other. I've almost deleted my profile and thought that no one were serious on net. If I knew that they just want to have fun or do dirty deeds I cut it immediately. Early morning 5am, I opened my PC again and Bert finally made me fall in love. We talked five hours a day.  I like his point of views his smart, gentle and most of all he has respect. I felt his sincerity and passion that's why he got my respect too. He showed me  his tattoos, but  it's Ok.   The most important  is inside not the outside.  I left everything to a close friend the business and my lucky.  A soft coated terrier dog. I went to manila and Bert and  I finally met.  Now, we're happily married and hopefully our baby angel will come soon.
This is My LucKy Dog

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